Question: I'm a single woman, who'd
love polyamory but I'm afraid that if I tell men this,
they'll reject me. What should I say and when?
Sometime in the early
stages of relating you might bring up the subject in a
casual manner, such as, "I've been looking at an
interesting website or reading this (book, article,
magazine) that describes a whole new way men and women are
relating. It's called polyamory. Have you ever
heard of it?" If he has, you can draw him out on
his feelings or opinions on it. If not, give the ideas to
him in a neutral way and ask him what he thinks. If
he's accepting, share more, but if he's closed and negative,
re-evaluate whether you wish to pursue your relationship
with him or find others open to the lifestyle you want.