POLYAMORY: THE MORE LOVING PERSPECTIVE
Dr. Sasha (Alex) Lessin & Janet Kira Lessin

Answer Questions from the More Loving Perspective
  
 
Can She Create Alchemy If She Lacks Chemistry with Him


Question: I'm attracted to a guy. I like his personality--the way he thinks, his values, his sense of humor. But I'm not sexually turned on to him? Will this change?

Sasha:
On the one hand, you might create passion. If you enjoy this man and feel uplifted with him, give him time and energy.  Commit with him to explore a relationship.  Focus on what has heart and meaning between you and interact with care and consciousness.  Show each other how you like to be loved--sexually, emotionally and spiritually.  Go together to a relationship workshop and learn to listen actively, speak lovingly and support each other emotionally. 

     Attend a tantra workshop or study the links on teaching a man how to pleasure you and how to pleasure a man. When you feel love and trust, connect on all chakras (energy centers--brow (intuition), perineum (security), belly (power), heart (love), throat (communication) and crown (spiritual).  Book a private session with a daka or dakini--a practitioner of the ancient and modern arts of love.  You might cultivate sexual passion.      

    On the other hand, you still might not, even with all this focused consciousness, turn-on sexually with your friend. Nonetheless, you'll learn much about yourselves and still have much to share. 

Blessed Damozel - Beauty & the Beast  
by Kevin Barnes

 

 
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